Mark Howard Menke https://counselormark.net/ LPC Licensed Professional Counselor Mon, 25 May 2026 05:54:54 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 The Therapy Experience https://counselormark.net/the-therapy-experience/ Fri, 22 May 2026 19:51:07 +0000 https://counselormark.net/?p=3621 Some thoughts on the therapy experience.

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]]> Gratitude https://counselormark.net/gratitude/ Thu, 06 Mar 2025 21:07:34 +0000 https://counselormark.net/?p=1349 As emotional creatures living in a fast-paced competitive society, it’s easy to get caught up and focus on the things we don’t have, what we’ve lost, or how we compare to others. These thoughts are normal, but we also have good things in our life, present in even the darkest moments. Expressing gratitude is acknowledging […]

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One way to cultivate gratitude is through journaling. At the end of the day, take a few minutes to reflect on the day and jot down one thing you’re grateful for. It can be something big, like a supportive friend, or something small, like a good cup of coffee. It can be anything, there are no rules.

This simple daily practice can improve your outlook. By focusing on the positive, you’re essentially retraining your brain to look for and appreciate the good. It’s a small practice that can make a big difference to your mental health and well-being.

This quote from Marcus Aurelius reminds us to be grateful for the most precious gift, the privilege of being alive. So, what are you grateful for today?

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]]> Feeling of Bliss https://counselormark.net/feeling-of-bliss/ Wed, 05 Mar 2025 03:38:12 +0000 https://counselormark.net/?p=1323 When asked what the meaning of life is, the Dalai Lama said “Happiness.” Is what you’re doing making you happy? It’s a simple question, but one we don’t really ask ourselves that often. Of course, we can’t be happy with everything all the time, but what about the important things? If you were to rate […]

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]]> When asked what the meaning of life is, the Dalai Lama said “Happiness.” Is what you’re doing making you happy? It’s a simple question, but one we don’t really ask ourselves that often. Of course, we can’t be happy with everything all the time, but what about the important things? If you were to rate your happiness with your work, for example, on a scale of 1-10, what would the number be? What number would it need to be to motivate you to change? This simple quote reminds us to keep the most important thing uppermost in our minds, that being our happiness. In answering the question, you take a step towards viewing each element of your life through this lens.

 

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]]> Learning and Change https://counselormark.net/learning-and-change/ https://counselormark.net/learning-and-change/#respond Wed, 05 Mar 2025 03:41:07 +0000 https://counselormark.net/?p=1505 Some thoughts on life experience

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]]> https://counselormark.net/learning-and-change/feed/ 0 Its Not So Simple https://counselormark.net/its-not-so-simple/ Sat, 01 Mar 2025 03:37:32 +0000 https://counselormark.net/?p=1522 Simple formulas often don’t describe the realities and complexities of life.    

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